what questions should i ask an elder law attorney

When you or a loved one starts planning for the future, the process can feel overwhelming. From navigating Medicaid eligibility to protecting assets, many families don’t know where to begin. What questions should you ask an elder law attorney?

The right questions help you find a lawyer who understands your family’s needs, communicates clearly, and provides strategies that safeguard your financial security and dignity.

At A.R. Pike Law Firm, we believe knowledge is power, and asking the right questions is the first step toward confident decision-making.

Please don’t hesitate to contact us online or call (434)-485-2700 today for a consultation.

Uncertainty Creates Stress

Too many families wait until a health crisis forces quick decisions about long-term care, Medicaid, or guardianship. Without preparation, they face stressful choices that can drain savings, increase family conflict, and leave them vulnerable.

The good news is that these challenges can be avoided. Elder law attorneys exist to guide you through planning before emergencies arise. But not all attorneys offer the same experience or approach. Asking thoughtful questions ensures you partner with someone who can truly meet your needs.

What Questions Should I Ask an Elder Law Attorney?

When you meet with a lawyer, preparation is key. Here’s a list of questions for your elder law attorney at the first meeting, which can help you evaluate their experience, communication style, and ability to provide solutions. By referring to these questions, you’ll leave your consultation with clarity about whether the attorney is the right fit.

1. What Areas of Elder Law Do You Focus On?

Some attorneys focus more on estate planning, while others emphasize Medicaid planning or guardianship. You want to know whether their practice areas align with your priorities.

2. How Do You Help Clients Plan for Long-Term Care Costs?

According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, about 70% of people over age 65 will require some form of long-term care. Understanding how an attorney approaches Medicaid eligibility, VA benefits, or private-pay planning is crucial.

3. What Documents Do I Need to Protect My Wishes and Assets?

Key legal tools often include powers of attorney, healthcare directives, wills, and trusts. Ask how these apply to your unique situation.

4. How Do You Handle Medicaid Planning and Eligibility?

Medicaid rules vary by state, and eligibility often depends on careful timing and asset structuring. An attorney should explain strategies while staying compliant with state regulations.

5. Can You Assist with Guardianship or Conservatorship If Needed?

If a loved one becomes unable to manage their own affairs, guardianship may be required. Understanding how the attorney supports families through this process, while prioritizing dignity, is essential.

6. How Do You Charge for Your Services?

Some attorneys bill hourly, while others work on flat fees for specific services. Transparency around costs avoids surprises.

7. How Often Should I Update My Estate Plan or Documents?

Life changes, such as marriage, divorce, or a health diagnosis, can affect your plan. Ask how frequently your documents should be reviewed.

8. What Happens If I Need Help Quickly, Such as After a Sudden Hospitalization?

Emergencies happen. Make sure your attorney can act promptly when unexpected issues arise.

9. Do You Collaborate with Other Professionals, such as Financial Advisors or Care Managers?

Elder law often overlaps with financial and medical planning. Attorneys who work with a team can provide more holistic solutions.

10. What Experience Do You Have with Families Like Mine?

Every family is different. Ask about the lawyer’s background in cases similar to yours, whether it involves Medicaid, special needs planning, or blended family estates.

When Should You Consider Speaking to an Elder Law Attorney?

You can never really approach the topic of elder law too soon. It is always better to be prepared. Here are a handful of indicators that it may be time to reach out. 

  • You or a loved one is entering a nursing home or assisted living;
  • You’re worried about paying for long-term care without losing your home or savings;
  • You want to ensure your will, powers of attorney, or trusts reflect your current wishes; or
  • A family member is struggling to manage their own affairs and may need guardianship.

Recognizing these signs early gives you time to plan rather than react.

Schedule a Consultation With A.R. Pike Law Firm 

Choosing the right attorney begins with asking the right questions. At A.R. Pike Law Firm, we listen carefully, explain clearly, and design strategies tailored to your family’s goals.

By coming prepared with your own list of questions to ask an elder law attorney, you’ll feel empowered in your first meeting and confident about your future.

Don’t wait until a crisis forces decisions. Take control today. Schedule your consultation and let us guide you toward peace of mind, financial protection, and the dignity you deserve.